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AN OBJECT OF EXTREME DISLIKE
Sunday, April 5, 20092:27 AM
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BITE THIS:

I can see my haters clear than ever, in fact they’re everywhere and sometimes they’re just right in ahead of me. You know all this time I’ve been hated for SHIT comprehensions. Well, this is all exactly what I have in mind right now , because I just could’nt keep in mind anything I’ve done for them to hate me. I mean ” HEY! HELLO? What is it in me that you really hated so much?”Bloody hell! You dun even know me! You know…I could’nt conceptualize them walking around with lots of hate eating them up just because they think my being opinionated and having that ” walang paki sa mundo” lifestyle is such a dork! I’ll tell you this…I’m not mean..it’s just something that I believed and it’s my choice of life. Considerably, I guess that maybe they need to accept and respect that we see things differently. The fact that I’m not trying any harder to to get them to like me because basically I know that we’re not living a parallel life. So, if they dun wanna buy the crap of my idea , It’s not my problem anymore , it’s theirs.

THE BIGGEST FACTORS:

Somehow I thought , probably it is not my often rude behavior..as they say that is blowing up everything. I guess it is because of their own life complications , that’s why they’re interested in my character.*laughs moderately*hehehehe… You know, people usually hate other people when they are insecure, not confident and afraid of what’s different. Which results to resenting another person and putting all the negativity on them. I guess, this is precisely what is happening to me right now. I hate to say this though, but perhaps, it is the only way to make them feel better about themselves because they struggle with low self-esteem. You know, hating people for no genuine reason at all is no longer a healthy hate, it’s meaningless, uneducated in behavior, childish and ignorant. I think these people need to look through because accepting one’s differences will definitely add a dimension of ease to their lives. And with a little broad-mindedness , such ignorance can be shut out from them.

HERE”S THE DEAL:

The world is full of critics and you gonna have to always remind yourself that everyone has to deal with difficult people. You know…life is so stressful, if you react aggressively to the criticisms and try to prove the other person wrong, it would be unacceptable. I would even appear like your kinda muddling up your own life and making it a total chaotic mess. But you know what, what really matters is, how you take control of them. I think we need to listen a little less and speak for ourselves a little more. The thing is, we are deserving of so much more than someone’s ignorant negativity. Allowing other people’s criticism influence your life is not a smart kind of choice. Life is short and if all you can do is just whisper it…you’re like wasting your life doing damage control to yourself. Don’t be reluctant to show up the real you. Remember, what we do in life echoes in eternity, so always make the most out of it.

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