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“The next Boracay”
Sunday, May 17, 20098:49 AM
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BANTAYAN

Budyong Beach Resort, Sta. Fe, Bantayan Island,CEBU

No matter how money has been very tight to us these days, we still found time to squeeze in a plan to go for another summer adventure. After all the researches and the bookings for the accommodations that my sister and friend did, we finally got to the place they called island paradise in Bantayan Island. From the North Bus terminal we took the Ceres bus that will take us to Hagnaya. It was really fun to travel with friends ” nga di boring “. In other words…. that almost five hours travel that we did….was totally worth it. Though the ride on the ferry experienced was a bit funny because we really have no idea how it is like…til we got there and found out that it was a huge roro type. No 1st class or 2nd class seats here….. everyone has to sit down first-come-first-served on plastic benches arranged on the deck. Since we were the one who arrived last..we were not able to sit comfortably as we expected.

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After that exciting long trip ….Bantayan to us on a first glance was a blast. We took a cab from the port to Budyong Resort. This is actually the one my sister saw in the internet that his highly recommended for those who wanted to have a more relaxing beach to stay in… with it’s heavenly sandbar which really shows that this resort really offers one of the best beach front (that sometimes Kota visitors claim that it’s part of Kota’s resort, though it’s not). Aside from it has one of the cheapest accommodation rates and very accessible to the market it’s like Bora without the crowd. After unpacking we went straight to the beach for a look-see and it was’nt a disappointment at all.

It was absolutely one of Cebu’s finest.

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Our Cottage(duplex-cottage)

I would really say that Bantayan is one of the few beaches that I really love to visit again. Though the beach maybe perfect but it would have been great if the staff were a little more attentive and responsive. ( I actually lost my wallet there and It’s just too sad they did nothing to be of help.) Not to mention the lot of sea weeds floating of the shore , but still we really had tons of fun and really enjoyed swimming with the powdery white sand. Budyong might be fairly simple but the beach scenario….It was Absolutely GREAT!

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Room Rates Info:

Aircon rooms:
good for 2 – Ps. 1,200
good for 4 – Ps. 1,400
good for 6 – Ps. 2,000
Fan rooms:
good for 2 – Ps. 500
good for 4 – Ps. 1000
Extra pax in a room is Ps. 150

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Sound of the Chimes
8:48 AM
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There are a lot of ways to enjoy wind chimes and aside from the fact that it’s soothing to listen to and beautiful to look at , they also contain healing effects. Wind chimes does not only enhances my family’s life…but it has been also of great help to us.

My family’s been through an experienced of robbery for a couple of times. But this time it’s a lot different. We are almost encountering an armed stealing and definitely sounds a bit scary and dangerous. And we’re so very lucky that they were’nt able to break-in which eventually made us much more cautious to potential dangers around us. However, we still remain alert to whatever might happen after that incident. That experienced help us discover constructive ways to deal with the crime. So what we did was…we tried to hang a wind chime at the backdoor just in case the robbers come back again. And this time we can be able to hear at least something that will wake us up to avoid such horrible crime.

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OBSESSION WITH DEATH?
8:47 AM
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Extreme stress, failing a big exam, poverty, failed relationship, problem with peers, loss of a job, family problem, abuse, isolation…….are not causes of suicide. They are actually triggers for suicide. I bet you’re a little confused how it differs. Well, for me these things are not an excuse for committing suicide because the fact is, everyone has to deal with isolated stressful events in life. Probably, it’s just that people differ in their ability to handle the troubles that cause such desperate feelings. You know like, when something is gravely wrong in your life your suicidal thoughts is starting to activate and eventually urge you towards getting your own life. Suicide is definitely a result of an impulsive decision, so always remember that a person with healthy brain chemistry may think of it but doesn’t consider it as a last resort to escape a problem. So have you ever come to think of why some people commit suicide when we can actually find ways of dealing with these immeasurable problems? There are even people struggling to eat 3 times a day just to survive. I myself had been through a lot of failed determinations. And the road have always been very rocky for me and the only weapon I have to keep me standin’ still , is my little faith in Him. So instead of allowing these thoughts to crash our mind we have to learn the simple way, which is to work and pray. You’ll see, it will be of great help and worth it in the end.

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TAKING IN THE VIEW (A Travel Blog)
8:46 AM
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When you’re in need of a breather, scenic environment, you should try to go south. One of the most popular get away destination in the southern part of Cebu is the most eminent Kawasan Falls in Badian.

Actually I have visited the place thrice. My first time was quite despairing yet unforgettable , the second one was great and romantic and my last visit was really fun and memorable. But on the whole, that three times in a row visit have definitely provided me a well deserving scenery and ambiance.

Before getting to one of the falls picturesque spot you will have to walk 15 to 30 mins. along a very rocky , narrow path and cross three small bridges. Hmmmm…..sounds exciting right?Yup! You still have to travel and get exhausted..just a little but hey..wait until you get to see and enjoy the natural, relaxing, peaceful, cool and deep freshwater which provides a beautiful setting for soul-searching.

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One of LLTP’s summer escapade is going to one of the favorite destination in dalaguete.

Obong Spring is a natural spring water with a cold mountain ambiance which flows near the beach where fresh and salty water mixes. It is indeed perfect for an outing with friends or family and a lovely place for taking photos.

At first we were sort of dubious about how fun the spring would be but I’m really such a big sucker when it comes to cold water and for a change I guess this will be another attraction for those who do not want sea adventure anymore.

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Exploring these relaxing locations kinda remind me of being young again. And no matter how money has been very tight to us these days, we’re still positive that we can still do something to capture nature’s calmness. Nevertheless, we still end up laughing about how great thooooose days were.

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SEX IS GOD’S JOKE ON HUMAN BEINGS
8:45 AM
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Scientists studies every origin of things but unluckily never with sex. Neither they can’t exactly say why we do it and doesn’t even know how and where it started. So why do you think this thing is so loud? Do we really need sex to feel normal? Have you ever got to that certain level asking how it started and why we do it? Read between this line….the answers might seem obvious to you but apart from considering the emotional and practical of its mental analysis , other people had sex for even more stupid reasons.

REASON # 1 : seemed like a good exercise and it reduces stress

REASON # 2 : can’t go to sleep

REASON # 3 : boredom

REASON # 4 : Just curious about it.

REASON # 5: wanted to be popular.

REASON # 6 : wanted to give someone a sexually transmitted disease for revenge.

REASON # 7 : They were drunk.

REASON # 8 : Profession

REASON # 9 : Just wanted the attention.

REASON #10: was sexually aroused and wanted the release.

REASON #11: wanted to apply a new position

REASON #12: because you’re in a hotel

REASON #13: practice? LOL!

REASON #14: a birthday present

REASON #15: prom night , a party or a special occasion

REASON #16: it’s raining

REASON #17: was horny

So? Does this sound like things are getting nonsense here? I mean….would it make a lot more sense to just have a bunch of females that can clone themselves and assumed that sex never should have happened when we go through this stupid reasons? The distressing fact is , sex can actually wash out the good and accumulate the bad in us. So…..Is sex really God’s joke on human beings? If it’s so sacred why can’t we keep it that way? Why can’t we do what is necessary?

Sex is definitely a hot-button topic and who would think that a woman like me who is supposed to be appropriate who lived in a culture that imposed strict standards on sexuality is actually writing a blog about it. Bottom line is, someone might have been missing the real story here because women are the one’s who are bothered with sexual reproduction because we are the one’s who get pregnant after having sex.


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A story that will touch all of us in some way
8:44 AM
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We’re living in a world where there are a lot of questions asked…………And there might not be anything in this world that has more questions attached to it than the end of life. Death is not lasting only a short while and is indeed not changeable .It is definitely constant and it’s forever.

I was watching wowowee when I heard the news about Francis M’s death….at first I could’nt imagine thinking that ….understanding death and accepting it is really important for all of us. The news was really shocking and definitely saddening for us Filipinos because a legend passed away.

What happened to him was a day we had not expected to come so soon. But with his words and works, and with his music that spoke the truth about the society we live in , he will surely one man that we will truly missed.

We thank you for putting three stars and a sun in your heart for the rest of us to see. Nothing can ever replace you in the eyes of the people you left behind. You will always be the only Man from Manila.

Thank you for the MUSIC.

May you rest in peace. We love you !!

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WHEN DEATH IS KNOCKING
8:43 AM
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Every second is a bonus if you beat a disease that was almost eating up your entire life and left you near death. Well, life is hard at times but I would say that I am already abundantly blessed to have known the joy of living a good yet simpler life. All this time , I’ve learned to appreciate when something positive happens no matter how small it is because what matters most is you cherish what you have and not…..what you don’t have.

June 03, 2007 – Apart from the fact that I’m used to getting a balance diet and proper exercise, I got diagnosed with a disease that fewer people are having . After my first pregnancy, I felt tired all the time and grew more exhausted . That is why the diagnosis was so shocking that I don’t even realized that the disease developed rapidly. Before I found out, I often complain of being easily tired. At first I thought it was just a normal running out of breath but apparently that shortness of breath is getting progressively worse. I then understand that it’s definitely something else until I got fainted and I believed that I suffered a massive heart attack. But much larger part of me rejoiced when I realized I successfully survived a sudden death after that incident. Though a much smaller part of me felt sad because of what I’ve found out. My heart is weak and doesn’t pump normally anymore. I realized…I have a heart enlargement (Post-partum Cardiomyopathy), not just enlarged but all four walls were actually stretched. They said my heart was so weakened , but nevertheless it’s strong enough to no longer warrant an emergency transplant. And the greatest news is..I’m still alive up to now.And one good thing I don’t experience chest pain, although recovery time is a bit longer. I lose a few pounds and I need to gain a little of it again but I need to try to get more fish and vegies and eat meat a little less. The usual treatment involves taking medication and lifestyle changes are definitely mandatory. The whole treatment regimen is quite frustrating, you know when your being forced to lie down, sit and do nothing but somehow it’s the best way to progress.

FYI: Cardiomyopathy is a serious disease in which the heart muscle becomes inflamed and doesn’t work as well as it should.

Having a big heart is not a good thing. It’s some sort of an inside look and a crash course into the mysterious world of heart failure. Wherein it’s incredibly frustrating and it felt like you couldn’t catch a break when your overwhelmed by the difficult situation you are immediately going to face with. Still I felt blessed because my health challenged forecast recovery is actually promising. It’s pretty much the way I have chosen to fight my health issues. In fact , I’ve learned a lot about life and still continuing to learn more. Somehow …it’s a battle worth fighting for.

1st 2d echo result

Interpretation:

=dilated left ventricular dimension with severe global hypokinesia and with evidence of both systolic and diastolic dysfunction.

=thickened mitral valve leaflet with low flow configuration and with evidence of mild mitral regurgitation.

2nd 2d echo result

Interpretation:

Compared to previous study

= improved wall motion in the basal segment of the inferior left ventricular free wall with corresponding slight increase in EF(Ejection Fraction) from 16% to 29%.

=decrease right atrial size from 41mm to 35mm

3rd 2d echo result

Interpretation:

= increase EF ( ejection fraction) from 29% to 46%

=diastolic dysfunction is no longer noted

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IT’S A GIRL (a test for pregnancy)
8:42 AM
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I went to the Dr the day before yesterday for my ultra sound fetal aging check up and found out i’m having a baby girl!!!!! I’m on my 22nd to 23rd week and for those of you who don’t know i’m due around the first week to second week of July.

I’m soon.. going to be a mother again and I can’t hardly wait.I am so..so..so.. thrilled because it’s a girl. !Isn’t it the most wonderful news?

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Taking Off my Dancing Shoes
8:40 AM
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The Philippines is now the dominant force when it comes to Hip Hop dance crews. Another reason for the Filipinos to be proud of.*claps*But nobody knows I was once into dancing…hahahaha…simang!..I started very young at 5 then I began doing choreography way back in high school and eventually stopped at the age of 18.Lookin’ back those thoughts will only frustrate me that’s why I decided to conceal everything.My recent friends does’nt even know what I went through in dancing.I never show it off to them.Never!hehehe..I also tried cheerleading but ’twas not that complicated…Anyone can do cheerleading anyway…twas not good enough for me…*laughs loud*..Hip Hop dancing was really my passion.Aside from the rough stunts..It was really fun to do it.I was attached to it since then.I never had a hard time doing it.*smirks* It is such a big part of my life, and I once live for it.In fact I have already proven something in the field when I was given the responsibility of the dancing shoes during my high school years..(confession sa..hahaha)..I was never enrolled in dance class actually…I was not even part of our schools dance troupe, but I did my thing and it was worth it. But opportunity most of the times knock only once..when I was offered to audition for a dance troupe I refused to do it.My friends then urge me to go for it but never my parents.Instead they wanted me to gave up dancing.And so I did….that was when my life started to fall through.GULP!That’s why I never went back to dancing.And never tell anyone that I was once into it….Well..I actually tried to get it back when I met some friends and offered me a spot to dance for them.Twas 2005 when I went back ..but too sad it did’nt work for some shit reasons….this time twas my boyfriend who mess up everything…. So what I did… I just took steps to get over it. Until I got pregnant and I was diagnosed with a heart failure….which I guess…. obviously the biggest cogent evidence not to go back into the dance floor.

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