Have you ever wondered why you’ve been lied to and taken advantage of by your partner? Have you ever thought why being faithful seems to be so difficult? And have you ever wondered just why so many relationships fail after they seem to be going well right from the start? We often convinced ourselves that they will never happen to us, but when things get nasty and everything suddenly starting to go downhill we always end up confused and go through thinking that if loving someone only bring pain and causes torment….why do we still keep on looking for affection elsewhere. When we experienced a deteriorating relationship, our common question will always be why. So, why is that? Well.. most probably because we still hope and wish that love stays forever. Notwithstanding , truth in life… is not always a fairy tale. I guess….there’s no such thing as happily ever after. Hence, if love never last forever?Then what do you think, what’s forever for? Does this show that failed relationships are heretofore a part of life? You know love is not difficult to define likewise, it’s not easy to comprehend. It is mysterious and sometimes deceitful. Upon loving someone ,everyone wants to be understood. But usually people go about it the wrong way. Loving is not a piece of cake….it’s way more than that…it’s entirely critical. It creates both happiness and bitterness even in the most ideal of circumstances. It can even quickly become a source of anxiety and despair as well. However, people oftentimes take the person they love for granted. You know ..like they easily make someone feel so special and important, yet when they get bored and that strong emotion has faded they eventually find someone who can feed more their addiction to the chase and challenge of love. I mean…is that it? It’s just like dumping something your fed up with into the dumps. It’s definitely a horrible feeling to sense that.You feel like a crap .Do we really deserved a lot worse even how things are completely doing well? Why do people have to do such a dick? Does this show that no one is actually worthy to be loved? Why do we always end up in a dying romance? Can’t lovers agree on something to work things out for them to stay together..like forever? Does this show that no one is really trustworthy? Why is being faithful so difficult? Do we only embark on into a relationship just for the sake of companionship? Why do we continually stray out of love? There are definite number of reasons why staying in a relationship is definitely hard to achieve. Every now and then…no matter how diligently we attempt to save it there’s no way to start again what has distinctly fallen apart. And sometimes…it hurts even more if we try to go for another chance. Being in a relationship is a choice that people make. Yes you have always an option..but think about what might be an area of concern. If we keep on hangin’ to the quote like there’s still so many fish in the sea……then probably this is why we always take the place of an obstacle course while searching for absolute happiness. As the case may be, that’s why there’s no real love among us.Perhaps, that’s why love often fails.

He’s actually afar far perfect..but you know..It’s not my thing to take note of standards. It’s just that he got me completely worked up. Inasmuch as he’s the one I want to spend the rest of my life with …. he’s my first in every sense. During our early weeks he’s so preoccupied. He visits me frequently and we never run out of words every time we talk. All is very handy and everything is so beyond compare. His gestures of attachment are very impressive and I’m admittedly amazed at how everything else went so peaceful between us. But all was not well beneath the surface. Somebody is workin’ behind the scene. Which created eventually a contradictory spin on us. His lies, his alibis, his treachery, the rumors, his family, the back-fence talk of a friend, is really getting on me. At times I feel like I have to hang it up and move on. BUt even with his roughness, I struggled to keep the relationship with no ifs and buts. I was never turned-off. In fact, I became able to love his weaknesses. I tried to be extensible in many measures. I managed to live with it and forged on. I felt like I always had to be perfect for him to stay with me. In effect, I almost ignored my own life. But when reality intrudes on the affair of the heart for no apparent reason, momentarily you’ll not gonna notice, you’ll eventually head for the exit and everything will turn out to be a mess. I then bought the idea… I am loosing my edge. Yes… I do believed in sacrifices. But somehow I thought.. why the hell would I hold up? Why would I endure for someone who’s not worth every ounce of my sweat? It’s like loving a gadget to death by over using it. I really dun know how everything else went off the path. The only thing I comprehend is, I’ve given too much but all is taken for granted. WEll… probably this is’nt real at all. Because if it hurts, you loses it and all is torn up..they say it is’nt love. It looked like I was about to swallow my own words. I often say I will never give up on him…even how fatal the wounds are , I’m ready to endure for anything. But as I went through the process, I became aware that I must fight the urge of giving too much. It just does’nt seem to do any better. It’s the most damaging relationship error one can ever make. It was even scarier than I thought. Loving a good-for-nothing person is like adding insult to injury. That’s why I decided to cut it off. I took steps to get over everything and ended up all the heavy-hearted thoughts. I stopped moping around and started to get involved in new things. Well…the best lesson there is that love has brought me is…..a worthless sacrifice is not the basis for a good relationship. It’s a half-baked suicide. You should set something aside for yourself if you dun want to end up fixing your own mistake. It’s kinda complicated but bear in mind…you can always simplify anything.