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Lapse in Judgement

Wednesday, March 4, 20099:15 PM

Alone and pregnant? Sounds like a goddamn piece of sluggish game play from hell. Right? But being single and havin’ a baby does’nt mean your alone. Somehow it felt like the beginning of the end and is only as good as what you make of it. Well, there are maybe reasons that are not good enough but when it’s quiet and you can hear yourself think, everything else will follow. At the start you thought you’re going to condemn yourself to years and years of isolation but this is actually about putting a new spin on something. Rather wasting your life wallowing in despair just because of a little rejection and because of the

opinion of other people. Why not suck all the pessimistic thoughts out of you. Try to shuffle things around, pull things back together, start over and don’t permit things to throw you off completely. You’ll see, you’ll do great and everything else will fall into place. Who knows, you never would have guessed…eventually…you’ll not gonna notice, you’re even more happier than some of those who are in relationships. I know it’s kinda burdensome to get everyone to understand what you’re trying to do.Nevertheless, just don’t waste one point of your life to lose. Yes..it’s not actually effortless to be around to those who are entirely ignorant of the world’s mess. It’s like attracting unwanted attention and gets even worse if you go on dealing with them. It’s not just loud at times, but it’s actually screaming at you. Oddly enough, it really sucks when your misunderstood and being criticized that it seems like you can’t quite put your fingers on what’s happening. I know being pregnant and flying solo is some sort of a case of maximum risk. And in most cases, failure to handle this could be mentally and emotionally aggravating. But being single and pregnant is definitely not a low down dirty shame. It’s not neither a a riddle that no one can deal with nor a complete worst nightmare. By some means, it’s a blessing. You know, I often consider the heightened consciousness brought about by my error in experience, somehow a blessing in disguise. Because I rely on, that nothing happens by chance.Everything here. happened for a reason. Fix in the mind that..you’re living in the real world and this is your real walk of life. Probably, you don’t have any clue as to where it’ll end up but always swing things at the opposite way. Drop the negative thinking and stay positive. Just bear this in mind, that perhaps it possibly suggests something more like better for you. Not to mention, tough times bring out the better preson in you. On this wise, this is actually not worth some worry..besides it all make sense. Furthermore, when you keep holding on to anguish you’re the one who’s gonna suffer most. So, better replace your thoughts with something else that will give you a peace of mind. Considering that, that will be your basis to real happiness. In some manner it will make you realize that most of what you’re getting stressed about aren’t really that valuable in the larger frame of things. Remember, life is not permanent , so don’t take your frustrations seriously. Instead make something good out of it.

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